What’s the first thing you do when you don’t like something? Stay with the problem or find a solution to the problem? Many people might choose the former for being afraid of changes, just because “it’s ok” to stay at the current situation. It doesn’t make sense when you’re not happy your life.
Let’s put work as an instance, which is something most people spend significant time doing during life. Why spend the best years of your life going to work and doing something you don’t even like or enjoy? The easy choice is to stay and complain about it Monday to Monday. The solution could be to change jobs, or even career.
It’s hard, very hard. I’ve been there and very little people believed in me. But I believed in me and that’s all that mattered to me. I know I am discipline, resilient, and determined to achieve whatever I set out to accomplish. You can too if your why is strong enough.
Richard Chan 