You’ve got to say what, why, how you feel and think. That should be one of the unspoken rules between two people in any type of relationship. Unfortunately, it’s not always the case. That’s why we need to make the effort to open up, communicate clearly, and set boundaries. What you don’t share in a … Continue reading Say what you’ve gotta say
I’m rarely impressed by who people are, how they look like, what they do, and what they own. Similarly, I don't really care much and wouldn't judge you based on your race, gender, religion, culture, or sexual inclination. What I truly care about is how you treat people around you, both the people you know … Continue reading Two kinds
Making things up to make them seem bigger than they are is easy. Take sales or marketing for example. It’s convenient to over promise, hype things up, create false expectations that might be difficult to meet for the sake of closing a deal. What we should aim for is, to be honest with what we … Continue reading Be honest
I remember back in the days when I’d hold back on thoughts and feelings because I didn’t want to hurt people, especially loved ones. I’d try not to argue, fight back, or express how I truly feel. The more I did this, the worse I felt in relationships — I’d feel I left something hanging, I’d feel … Continue reading Say what you mean
Staying honest with yourself will be painful and hurt now, tomorrow and in a week, but will make you feel better months or years when you decide to look back. Look. If you feel like what you are doing is not what you truly want out from like, then take action. Stop procrastinating. Time will … Continue reading Getting things clear
Richard Chan 